Funny dating pet names
“It’s become part of the fabric of their relationship,” she said.
“It’s taken for granted.” For this study students at Ohio University went out and delivered the survey to married people.
There seem to be a variety of languages with pet names, too.
According to the website of the popular language-learning software Rosetta Stone, the French say “Mon Petit Chou” (my little cabbage or cream puff), the Russians say “Vishenka” (cherry), the Dutch call girlfriends “Dropje” (candy) and in Brazil you can say “Meu Chuchu,” where “chuchu” is a vegetable.
With Valentine’s Day around the corner, I got to thinking about terms of endearment and about the world of interpersonal language that romantic partners develop just for themselves.
But if you scour in the scientific literature for research on pet names and relationship happiness, you’ll likely come upon one stand-out paper: “‘Sweet Pea and ‘Pussy Cat’: An Examination of Idiom Use and Marital Satisfaction Over the Life Cycle,” which appeared in the in 1993. Bruess led this study for her master’s thesis, and she’s still getting inquiries about it 22 years later. The terms of endearment are important when conflicts arise, she says, allowing a natural recourse to humor and playfulness when things get rough.
“I fell in love with the idea that I could look at the micromoments that create relationships,” says Bruess, now director of family studies at the University of St. “I think it’s a really human, natural behavior to take language and shape it for our own purposes,” she says. We name things, we give things symbols, and over time we tend to naturally manipulate those symbols toward a certain outcome.” Bruess’ study, co-authored by retired professor Judy C.
“It’s just a human way of expressing love,” she says.
Baby talk Fisher directed me to researchers at The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University who did a study on “baby talk,” or what they call “Loverese,” among couples.