Dating serious relationships 50 s
• Making unfair comparisons with their previous partners- being stuck here is not at all helpful.
• People have ulterior motives for meeting-this can be true but stay smart, check things out and trust your gut.
When people are thinking about getting back into the dating scene, especially after the age of 50 there are a number of major things that they think about even though they may not openly discuss them with others.
If you have spent the past 20-30 years or so building your life with someone else, to then think about creating a life with another person that you may not have even met yet, or someone that maybe a stranger to you right now is not easy. • They are concerned about how others will view them if they pursue a new relationship.
• They are unlovable- if they’ve lost one love maybe they are convinced that they are unlovable.
• They have nothing to bring to a relationship • If it doesn’t work out they will feel even worse, and they will feel like a loser too. • Don’t deserve another chance-Everyone deserves to be happy.
When you consider how many singles there are, there’s probably only a small percentage of those individuals that honestly want to live their life alone, whether they admit to it or not.
Especially for those that have had the experience of a good relationship even if it was short lived.